when i was younger and my parents were poor i accepted the subservient role and allowed my rich cousin nicholas to have the shine while i stayed in the shadows. i celebrated, honored and loved him but in turn he didnt do the same but i still wanted to be his friend so badly that i tolerated his humiliation. i watched him give speeches at family functions and i wasnt chosen because hes the one the family wanted and favored since he had rich parents observing this lowered my self esteem and i knew i was worthless but then my parents became rich too and now i refuse to play second fiddle to my cousin nicholas and when the other relatives refused to give me the place i deserve i stopped attending family functions i now go where im chosen, appreciated, loved and valued. and now i have high self esteem and self confidence. i stopped tolerating nicholas' humiliation and ended my friendship with him since he had no consideration for me what has caused this change in me

When I was young and my parents were poor, I accepted a subservient role and allowed my rich cousin Nicholas to take the spotlight while I remained in the background. I celebrated and loved him, but he didn't reciprocate. I desperately wanted to be his friend, so I endured his humiliation. Seeing him favored by the family and chosen for speeches at gatherings lowered my self-esteem. However, when my parents became wealthy, I refused to play second fiddle to Nicholas. I stopped attending family functions where I wasn't valued and sought out places where I was appreciated and loved. what caused this change in me

when my parents were poor i played second fiddle to my rich cousin nicholas and tolerated mistreatment from my other relatives but now that my parents are wealthy i come second to no one why is that

when i was a little child i played second fiddle to my cousin nicholas since he is my rich aunts son and the favorite child of the family. my mom became rich too and now that im 20 i stopped accepting the role of second best and now i come second to no one im either first priority or im out. why did become this way.

when my parents were poor why is it i endured my rich relatives' abuse, humiliation mistreatment and disregard for 20 years. the more they disapproved me the harder i worked to earn their approval. I was obedient, loyal, respecful, caring, kind, understanding and loving towards them. I always had the best behavior and was the good kid in the family that obeyed all the rules but that didn't matter I was still vilified and punished for wrongs my rich cousins had done. I was blamed and called the bad seed but still I put up with it. Where they didn't show me consideration I showed selflessness. I have a passion for acting and a great singing talent I would offer to sing and entertain the prominent guests at the family parties but eventually I was stopped and not allowed to, my self esteem went low and I resorted to being the invisible child not seen and not heard for it was better that way. I played second fiddle to my rich aunts son Jireh and watched him give all the speeches and receive all the family love and support. I would never speak up after all we were the poor relatives begging for handouts. Jireh and my other rich cousins were supported in all their endeavors, i.e academic and career pursuits. Nissi was encouraged to become a pilot. Jireh was taken to a football academy in London. Norman was taken to study at a prestigious university. I on the other hand was neglected, my parents didn't have the money to take me to acting school in Los Angeles and my rich relatives didn't bother supporting my acting career. Eventually my parents became rich and now they're supporting my acting career I can now afford to study in acting school in Los Angeles. But when my rich relatives still treated me the same as they did when we were poor I spoke back to them, I now no longer accept their ill treatment and when they still refused me from performing at a family party and kept complaining i'm pursuing an ungodly career and that im transgender which is sinful I decided to leave them behind and now I no longer see them as relatives or family they no longer exist to me. Why is it that now at 20 I have decided to walk away from them and no longer endure their humiliation and play second fiddle to my rich cousins

when i was younger i sought acceptance and validation from my rich relatives but because my parents they never valued or appreciated me. Eventually my parents got rich and now i no longer care for my rich relatives' approval and i dont show up where im not respected, valued, loved or adored. what has caused this change in my behavior