Sir meri age 26 ho chuki hai 3 4 saal se Government job paane ki koshish kar ryi hu lekin nhi mil rhi meri cchoti bahan mujhse 2 saal cchoti hai uski esi saal job lag gyi hai ab Gharwale mujhe kafi sunate hain, value nhi karte bilkul aor mujhe usse compare karte hain cchoti baato pe mummy baat karna band kar deti hain agar kabhi jbab de du to baddua dene lagti hain ki teri buri दशा hogi , apni maa ke mu se asi baate sunke jeene ka mann nhi karta jabse unhone mujhse ye baat kahi mai bhul nhi pa ryi hu , mai jyda active nhi du 4 saal phle mera boyfriend ne mujhse breakup kr liya jab uski job lgi thi mai depretion se 4 saal mi thoda bohot bahar aa payi hu 3 baar sadi ka rishta tay hoke kisi na kisi reason ki vajah se mna ho gya kyuki unko Job vali ladki chahiye mai akele in sab halato se ladte ladte thak chuki hu
Question
Sir meri age 26 ho chuki hai 3 4 saal se Government job paane ki koshish kar ryi hu lekin nhi mil rhi meri cchoti bahan mujhse 2 saal cchoti hai uski esi saal job lag gyi hai ab Gharwale mujhe kafi sunate hain, value nhi karte bilkul aor mujhe usse compare karte hain cchoti baato pe mummy baat karna band kar deti hain agar kabhi jbab de du to baddua dene lagti hain ki teri buri दशा hogi , apni maa ke mu se asi baate sunke jeene ka mann nhi karta jabse unhone mujhse ye baat kahi mai bhul nhi pa ryi hu , mai jyda active nhi du 4 saal phle mera boyfriend ne mujhse breakup kr liya jab uski job lgi thi mai depretion se 4 saal mi thoda bohot bahar aa payi hu 3 baar sadi ka rishta tay hoke kisi na kisi reason ki vajah se mna ho gya kyuki unko Job vali ladki chahiye mai akele in sab halato se ladte ladte thak chuki hu
Solution
Mujhe samajh aa raha hai ki aap kafi pareshan hain. Sabse pehle, aapko yeh samajhna hoga ki har vyakti ka jeevan alag hota hai aur har vyakti ki apni alag journey hoti hai. Aapki chhoti behen ki job lag gayi hai, yeh unki journey hai. Aapko apne aap ko unse compare nahi karna chahiye.
Aapki family ki baatein aapko hurt kar rahi hain, lekin shayad woh bas apni chinta vyakt kar rahe hain. Unhe samjhaaiye ki aap puri koshish kar rahe hain.
Aapka breakup hua hai aur yeh aapko aur bhi jyada pareshan kar raha hai. Lekin aapko yeh yaad rakhna chahiye ki aap strong hain. Aapne depression ka saamna kiya hai aur iska matlab hai ki aap me himmat hai.
Job ke liye aapko lagatar mehnat karni hogi. Ho sakta hai ki aapko kuch aur skills sikhne padenge ya phir aapko apni strategy badalni padegi. Lekin haar nahi manni chahiye.
Shaadi ke liye bhi, sahi vyakti ka intezaar karna chahiye. Job na hone ki wajah se rishta tootna, yeh galat hai. Aapko aisa vyakti chahiye jo aapko samjhe, aapki respect kare aur aapke saath aapki journey me saath de.
Aap akeli nahi hain. Aapke saath bahut log hain jo aapki madad karna chahte hain. Aapko bas unhe dhundna hoga. Aap apne dosto se baat kare, ya phir kisi counselor se. Aapko apna dhyan rakhna hoga. Aap strong hain aur aap is situation se deal kar sakte hain.
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